Senin, 16 Maret 2009

Tips no.1. Make Her to Share Everything

It’s not easy to understand a women’s world especially when you are the opposite human. Every human have their own problem and story, and from what I known we as a man are not the kind of people that a women want to share to.
My very best friend a woman she confess that actually woman is the kind of person that loves gossip, easily jealous and very hard to trust man especially because of our bad image by previous man.
Ok Ok, we have to admit that we don’t like sharing our daily activity and all of our secrets to woman but face it the bottom line they like to share. There is a dark side of woman that will always be a mystery to man and that “emptiness” can only is filled by a woman. Hmm.. Perhaps that is why usually a woman friendship is filling with lots of gossip and story. Women like to talk more than you because she likes to share more. We need to understand that women share their need, their language and their passions.
Sometimes a woman could spent hours in front of a mirror just to do make up and on Saturday she went to a beauty clinic and doing manicure, pedicure, hair spa. Women also want to be recognizing because of their intelligence and their brain not just their sexy body. So if you trapped in this situation try to be patient and tell her how she looks gorgeous even if without make up, this will make her realize the situation and hurry up the make up process.
About woman language is totally different with man language. When a man is doing one things and that’s what he doing at that time, you can’t interrupt him during that time and if he got something else to do than he will do it after he finished But woman is capable to think, to talk and handle 2 or 5 things to do in the same time. Do you remember the typical secretary who is fixing her nail, and typewriting a letter and receiving phone while playing games with her new mobile phone.. Isn’t those 4 things at one time amazing right?
Their passions are different from our passion and we know that the truth we do not care about their passion but try to get along with it. Let her has some free time to do her own passions and prepare your ear to stay as a rock when she want to tell you some story even though you didn’t really care about the matters. If she understands how hard you try to be tolerance with her and soon she will react positively and also giving you respect and love.

Kamis, 19 Februari 2009

Husband as Lover or Waiter


If you are reading this and you are curious about it, let me explain from the beginning. Human since Jesus Christ was born are divided into man and woman. And also it is natural that all man and woman are born to live side by side, helping each other, raising their children and live happily ever after. But WAIT! Not whole of the story is right. In this modern world takes a lot of work, compromise and strategy to have a happy relation with your marriage partner. If you think that you can have a happy life without doing anything than you must be dreaming it takes all of your sweat, sacrifice, tears and blood to overcome this. We have to face the reality that girl power is getting stronger each time. And this things create more obstacle in your marriage life. I seen a lot of husband from all ages are being treated like a waiter rather as a husband, the head of the family. I'm not saying if that is a bad things but at least we as husbands must be prepare for all of your partner action so you can compromize and get out of the uncomfortable moment and getting the best solution for both of you. This blog is dedicated to all husbands in the world and I hope you will be more wise, more smart and yet more adorable for your wife.